Monday, November 2, 2009

Readjusting

Things are different. It's interesting. The eight months we spent in the Ukraine went by very quickly but at the same time it has felt like a long time. This past week has been mostly recovering from the jet leg and getting things in order with our car and my school. We have our car again which is a nice luxury. Our friends Brett and Rachael had our car while we were gone. They came by and hungout with us Friday and Saturday. We went out to Canmore with them to do a short hike and to catch up. This was very pleasant. To walk and visit. In Ukraine we walked a lot and had gotten used to this but here we have become lazy with our car. And then visiting freely with our friends was quite a treat as well. Not just visiting but talking about spiritual matters as well. I found this quite refreshing. To visit about everything and anything and being comfortable to do so. Sadly though they have moved to Lloydminster so we will only get to see them once in awhile.




Our first Sunday back to Journey church brought mixed feelings. We enjoyed seeing everyone again and catching up. We enjoyed singing in English and having Canadian pizza afterwards. Oh, I have forgotten how soft and tasty our pizza is. But a part of me was sad as well. My thoughts would linger to our congregation in the Ukraine and our friends there. A part of me wishes I could be with them but I know our time is to be here now.

Today, Laurie and I went to Ambrose to visit with a counselor there. The lady there has had many experiences with missions work and moving around so she was able to help us speak through our experiences. She helped us work through some emotional aspects of our leaving and readjusting. Its interesting. Our emotions are connected with everything we do...even if we don't realize it.

This week we are taking a trip. I have a new nephew, Alexander. So we are going to Camrose to see him and the family.

I am procrastinating. I have two more assignments that need to get done for my school in the next couple of weeks. But I plan to focus much attention on them when we get back. Until then...

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Final Goodbyes

Our last week in Donetsk was a pleasure, stressful, sad and exciting. And all of these emotions at once were quite overwhelming. On Wednesday the students at UBI held a program and a lunch for us. It was quite a treat. They sang a song in English for us and we played some games. The first game tested our Russian skills. They gave us a bunch of pictures and we had to tell them what they were in Russian and if we didn't know then we had to act it out. I let Bruno do most of the acting. Then Bogdan had three of the students play the chubby bunny game except instead of saying chubby bunny they had to say, “Bruno and Laurie.” It was funny but ended up a little messy. Another game we played they had Bruno and I blindfolded and holding hands while people tried to sneak through us as we tried to catch them between our arms by squatting down.



These two little girls, Regina and Masha won that game as we didn't even move when they walked through because they were so quiet. It was a fun game, but with all that squatting we were quite sore the next couple of days. Then of course was some nice speeches and a gift and afterwards we enjoyed a hotdog lunch together. Now you might be thinking, “hotdogs aren't that great," but I must let you know that a Ukrainian hotdog is a little different. Its more like a hearty salad in a bun with a fat hotdog. They treated us so kindly.




Friday was a very busy day for us. In the morning we sorted through the Journey Church donations of t-shirts and stuffed turtles because we had planned the day before to give them out to children at the TB hospital. The younger kids loved the turtles and were especially excited about the notes that came with the turtles. They kept coming over to us and asking us what they said. With our limited Russian skills we translated them all to say that 'God loves you' and that the children in Canada who made them hope that you enjoy your new toy. That wasn't entirely an accurate translation of all the notes but it was the best we could do on the spot. And the kids were thrilled and showed us their new chillipakas (turtles) and little notes over and over.





There were also several young teenagers present when we were there also. They each accepted a turtle, but there was a drastic change in their attitudes when we brought out the t-shirts. It was quite amusing actually because there was not enough t-shirts for everyone but the teenage girls loved the shirts so much they were begging to each get one. They pulled them on immediately and were just so excited and giggly afterwards. They seemed a little shy about their excitement at first but I showed them a picture of how I had already been trying on the shirts too as you can see in the picture below.



After we delivered these things we went back to UBI to share one last borscht meal with the staff and students at UBI. It was fun to have one last fellowship with them all and then we started in on all our goodbyes. That evening we went out with some youth from church for a final goodbye too. Then Saturday we walked around town with Bogdon and then along with Bogdon, Lena and Marina came over to our house for a meal. And we sent them home that evening with bags of stuff from our house that we didn't want to transport back to Canada. It'll be interesting to hear if they figured out what to cook with our strange Canadian spices and condiments.

On Sunday Bruno preached which was a little more challenging to do with all that he had on his mind that morning. But he still delivered a very encouraging message from 2 Peter. And then we got to say our goodbyes at church too. Several of the babooshkas (grandmas) there had knitted us some little things to take home. I'm trying to explain to Bruno what a doily is, but he's having trouble understanding why anyone would use such a thing. I tease him but in all honesty there is one item that these grandmas gave us that I can't figure out either. Maybe it's a pin cushion. It was very sweet of them all to go to such effort. It was wonderful and challenging to so many goodbyes. Wonderful to have one last visit with so many and challenging to say goodbye not knowing when or if we will see them each again this side of heaven.

Our final goodbyes at the airport were the most challenging I think. With Bogdon and Nazar especially who have truly become like brothers to us. We truly hope that someday we will get a chance to go visit them again and see what God is doing in their lives.

Our flights home went very smoothly and the view from up high was breathtaking. We very much enjoy Lufthansa and all the food and services they provide. In the Munich Airport we found that they have free cappuccinos for their quests. It comes from machines but you can get sorts of different lattes and mochas and such... I think there was like 12 options to choose from. We were a little shocked at first and trying to figure out if they were free or not. But a man overheard us speaking in English and assured us it was all free. This was a little shocking to us as we are quite used to speaking freely in English to each other without being understood by anyone around. We'll have to be conscious now that our conversations can be understood around us.



So now we are home and experiencing a lovely case of jet leg. I have been up since 2am and Bruno since about 3:30 ... it'll take us a few days to adjust. But it is nice to start seeing all the people we love here again. We hope to catch up with all you in the near future.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Rest, the circus and wrap up.

Our past week was quite quiet. The staff and students at UBI had their fall break last week and many of them took this time to have a break from Donetsk. We didn't have much to do either so we shopped, walked and hung out with our friend Nazar for pretty much the whole week.



I bought a pair of jeans in the open market and made Laurie laugh. This is because I was changing behind a curtain and apparently I wasn't using the curtain properly. She said my butt was hanging out pretty much the whole time!

On Saturday we treated ourselves to an outing to the circus. Quite affordable actually, only about 15 bucks for the two of us to go. Our expectations were fairly low at first thinking it would be an animal show more than acrobatics but the first act made us realize we were in for a treat. There was high flying flips, swinging from poles, lots of humor and a live band. The good definitely out weighed the bad. Afterwards though our ears craved silence...sooo many kids having sooo much fun.





This week is our last and it is filling up quickly. Today we did some errands and visits. Now everyone wants to see us before we leave. Tomorrow we think the students at UBI are doing something for us. We were asking Lena earlier today if her and Vova wanted to come over for a visit and a meal after classes tomorrow but Lena laughed and said we couldn't have guests tomorrow because we ARE the guests at UBI tomorrow. That was the first we had heard of that ... so I guess we'll see what thats all about tomorrow.

Last Friday we found out that the postal office has two packages for us. We assume they are the boxes from Journey church VBS program. They have shirts and stuffed animals in them. We were hoping they would be delivered today but not so far. We were told that they could come at five or even tomorrow so we are hoping for sooner rather than later. If we can we will deliver these donations before we go but it all depends on when they get delivered and if we can organize where to take them soon.

This will be our last post from the Ukraine as we leave on Sunday and our time is quickly being booked up this week. We will of course post another when we get back to Calgary. I'm sure there will be plenty to share from this week and our trip home. Thank you for following our journey thus far.